I've resisted starting a blog because I don't want to be enslaved to it. I can't promise I'll have new material on here every other day, but I'll do my best to keep it interesting.
Vicki and I spent several days at the beach this week. I took with me a new book by Warren Bennis titled, Transparency: How Leaders Create a Culture of Candor. At Cornerstone, we have had a “no secrets” value from the beginning -- but lots of churches and Christian organizations start that way and then slowly become opaque. What happens? By what process or mechanisms do churches that begin "open" become "closed." Why do so many church leaders become more and more secretive with time? Although the book was written with secular institutions in mind, many of the principles apply easily to church culture. I enjoyed the book, even if it was too short. Rather than me restating what the book said, I thought I’d just share with you everything I underlined. Here we go:
"Trust and transparency are always linked. Without transparency, people don't believe what their leaders say."
"Even as many heads of corporations and even of states boast about their commitment to transparency, the containment of truth continues to be a dearly held value of many organizations. Sadly, you can say you believe in transparency without practicing it or even aspiring to it."
"For information to flow freely in an institution, followers must feel free to speak openly, and leaders must welcome such openness."
"Because the term transparency, like courage and patriotism, has the exalted ring of eternal truth, it is easy to forget that transparency is a choice."
"Secrecy has the unintended consequence of making leaks more likely."
"In today's world, where information travels globally with the click of a mouse, transparency is no longer simply desirable, it is becoming unavoidable. Many leaders continue to act as if they can hold awkward or damaging truths so close that the outside world will not learn of them. Those days are over."
"A common malady among organizational insiders is hoarding information. This is one of the many ways information gets stuck in organizations and is kept from flowing to those who need it to make solid decisions.”
"In many organizations, knowledge is viewed as the ultimate executive perk, not unlike the company jet, kept solely for the use and delight of the organizational elite."
"Any time an organization makes a seriously wrong decision, its leaders should call for an intensive postmortem. Such learning opportunities are too often overlooked. The tendency is simply to call on the public relations department to spin the matter, to make another inadequately thought-out decision, and perhaps to scapegoat, even fire, a few staff members. Because most companies cover up their mistakes instead of learning from them, systemic flaws in information flow tend to remain to do their damage another day."
“Despite the discrediting of Enron executives, among others, leaders still tend to be perceived by many as demigods. And that perception still deters followers from telling those leaders essential but awkward truths.”
“The best antidote for the shimmer effect (BA– where leaders become celebrities) is the behavior of the leader. The wisest leaders seek broad counsel, not because they are so enlightened but because they need it. Power does not confer infallibility. There’s a compelling reason to become more open with information from people at every level: those close to the action usually know more about what’s actually going on with clients, with production or customer service, than do those on the top floors.”
“Leaders have to do more than ask for the counsel of others. They have to hear it...one motive for turning a deaf ear to what others have to say seems to be sheer hubris: leaders often believe they are wiser than all those around them.”
“One of the dirty little secrets of many organizations is a debilitating caste system that identifies a few as stars, who are then rewarded and afforded special privileges, and damns the rest as mediocrities who are expected to be good little soldiers who work hard and keep their mouths shut. Some call this the ‘Golden Boy’ syndrome.”
“The more everyone knows and the more equally everyone is treated, the more likely it is that everyone will share the truth as he or she sees it.”
“A universal problem is that when staff speak to their leader, the very nature of the message tends to change. The message is likely to be spun, softened, and colored in ways calculated to make it more acceptable to the person in power.”
“One of the most dangerous myths of modern organizations is that it is better to make a bad decision than no decision.”
“In most organizations, hidden ground rules govern what can be said and what cannot. One key question that every leader should ask to encourage candor: Is it safe to bring bad news to those at the top? ...Leaders must show that speaking up is not just safe but mandatory, and that no information of substance is out of bounds.”
“Every family tacitly teaches each member four attentional rules:
• These are things we notice.
• This what we say about them.
• These are the things we don’t notice.
• And we never say anything to outsiders about that third category.”
“The emotion that seals people’s lips about vital lies is the unconscious fear that if we look at and speak about these dangerous secrets, we will either destroy the family or be expelled from it.”
“Just as in families, organizational secrets distort relationships. Those sharing the secret tend to form a more tightly knit bond while distancing themselves from outsiders, thus cutting themselves off from those who might expose them as well as those who might influence them in positive ways.”
“One of the dangerous ironies of leadership is that those at the top often think they know more than they do.”
“Whenever a tight-knit decision-making group fails to collect all relevant data and candidly analyze it, bad decisions are liable to be made.”
“Groupthink-driven decisions are the downside of a dynamic every organization seeks to build: group cohesiveness and pride in belonging.”
“The best way for leaders to start information flowing freely in their organizations is to set a good example. They must accept, even welcome, unsettling information.”
“Trust cannot be created quickly. In fact, trust is the most elusive and fragile aspect of leadership. Trust, along with shared cultural assumptions, is the strongest glue binding people together in groups...but leaders can’t provide trust directly to followers. Instead, trust is an outcome of all a leader’s accumulated actions and behaviors.”
“When leaders treat followers with respect, followers respond with trust. Leaders show their respect by always treating followers as ends in themselves – and never as a means to achieve their own ego or power needs, or even to achieve the legitimate goals of the organization.”
“In the absence of trust, all ambiguous behavior is viewed with suspicion...and by definition, all behavior is ambiguous! That’s why the failure to include people is the second-most-common source of mistrust, close behind the failure of leaders to tell the truth consistently.”
“Trust is hard to earn, easy to lose, and, once lost, nearly impossible to regain.”
“Throughout recorded history, the two main defenses used against organizational dissidents have been first to challenge their loyalty, and second to dismiss them as angry, perhaps insane, malcontents.”
“The most gut-wrenching moments almost all of us experience on the job come when we have to choose between speaking up and remaining silent when we believe our bosses are making serious errors in judgment.”
“The charge of disloyalty is as easy for leaders to bring against followers as it is difficult for the accused to counter and disprove.”
“Many institutional leaders believe that their employees owe loyalty to them as individuals. In contrast, whistleblowers typically say they owe their first allegiance to their organization.”
“We all have a moral obligation to speak truth to power when the actions of leaders are harmful to our organization, to people inside and outside the organization, and to the leaders themselves. But as hard as it is for messengers to fulfill such obligations, it is far more difficult for leaders to listen to, and heed, the warnings of followers.”
“Leaders who tell the truth, admit mistakes, and respectfully listen to the perspectives of others set the tone for an entire culture. This is simple, obvious, and clear as day. Yet, as the current leaders of both political parties in Washington illustrate, these positive behaviors are unnatural among those in positions of power. Indeed, most leaders in both the public and private sectors have to work to overcome culturally conditioned reflexes to dissemble, to deny, and to blame others.”
“It is almost always ego of the male persuasion–that makes it futile, even dangerous, to speak truth to power.”
“The mantle of true greatness should be reserved for those leaders who possess the so-called feminine virtues of humility, inclusion, vulnerability, service to others, and respect for people.”
“Americans are getting the kind of leadership our society celebrates.”
“Executives will not begin to act virtuously as long as boards continue to reward misbehavior.”
“What is the company joke no one would dare to tell the boss?...When Managers honestly and objectively start to ask, ‘What do we really cherish and hold dear – quality? technical excellence? power? executive privilege?’– organizations take a useful first step in that process.”
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That's the book. I didn't underline anything in the last part of the book, which talked about how "transparent" has changed with blogs, Facebook, and Twitter. I think for the most part the pressure to be more transparent is good. It is scary, though, how quickly false reports can become "internet truth.'
If you read this far, congratulations! I promise most posts won't be this long. I'd love to hear your comments -- especially regarding how you see "transparency" at Cornerstone.
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Thanks for the synopsis of the book. This is the quote that stood out to me. I definitely see some WWJD in that quote. MM
“The mantle of true greatness should be reserved for those leaders who possess the so-called feminine virtues of humility, inclusion, vulnerability, service to others, and respect for people.”
Thanks for taking the time to type all this down, Barry. You're the best. I am sending this on to a few people I know would benefit from reading it.
Welcome to Bloggy-World. Good luck not being enslaved to it. :-)
This is great stuff. It does however fail to acknowledge that sometimes there are circumstances that are on a need to know basis and the truth is some people just don't need to know. The problem with this can arise when the purpose is for power rather than for the best of those under the leadership. Still, we need to see far less "Need to know" things on the church front. If businesses are doing a better job with being open than the Church is, we've missed something intrinsically central to fellowship.
Wow - excellent information to process. Thanks, Barry. I think I'll pick up that book. I'm glad you have brought your accumulated wisdom and experience into the blogosphere where some of us who don't live close enough to attend your church are able to benefit. I look forward to future posts!
One issue I hoped the book would address (but it didn't) was how transparency relates to employee confidentiality.
Oh my. Thanks for the condensed book read. Very enlightening. Ron & Nancy
Living "under" a transparent leader allows the follower to learn and to grow from both positive and negative experiences. If the leader is not transparent, the follower seldom hears of, much less learns from, the leader's negative experiences.
If followers never know about the leaders' struggles, how do they gain the skills to face their own struggles?
Good leaders are also good coaches, finding "teachable moments" from their own lives to share with those who follow.
I truly appreciate the opportunity to learn from others who are transparent.
Barry- As a leader do you ever find it hard to decided how much to just tell people (being transparent), because you know the right way it should be done, as opposed to letting people figure things out on their own by trial and error? I ask not because I have ever precieved that as being a problem for you, but that is something I feel like in the little teaching/leading I have done, and even in parenting, difficult to find a balence between. Jesus is always who we should look to as a leader/teacher and he didn't just tell his followers things, he made them figure it out for themselves, but did correct wrong information. I know it is because I lack experience and am WAY to opinionated, but it is hard to sit back and let my kids or other people try things when I "know :)" they aren't correct. As a leader how do you deal with that?
(Pates) Your question is one we've touched on a couple times in elder meetings recently. We asked what it is we're trying to accomplish. As carriers of the Good News, our goal is not just changed minds (where people decide we are nice people) but changed hearts. Then we asked, is it possible that we are "too nice" sometimes -- to the point where some people who used to hate all Christians (and were going to hell) have their minds changed so they don't hate SOME Christians who attend Cornerstone (but they are still going to hell). Do we do good works and help people and train children so they will like us or so they will receive Christ and become more like Him? Jesus Christ is the only person who had absolutely pure motives 100% of the time. How "transparent" was Jesus in his dealings with people? NOT SO TRANSPARENT some of the time (like when he taught in parables and refused to explain them) and VERY transparent other times (some of his statements in the sermon on the mount in Matt 5-7 are nothing short of shocking). Jesus seemed to use strong language to point out people's sins and shortcomings but once they recognized their sin (Zaccheus, woman caught in adultery) he was gracious and kind. Of course, the big problem for us is we don't always have PURE MOTIVES. Sometimes I want to get in another person's face and tell them how bad they are, not really because I want them to repent, but because I want to hurt them. Obviously, that's not pleasing to the Lord. Maybe the progression should go: 1)Check your own heart, your motives. 2) Speak as much of the the truth (in love) as you believe the other person can recieve. 3) Assure the person that the Lord is gracious and compassionate, loving, and always ready to forgive. 4) Pray harder than you push, letting the Holy Spirit work from the inside out.
"As a leader how do I deal with this?" I think sometimes I get it right and sometimes I get it wrong. Hopefully, more right as I become more like Christ.
Oh! I like that: Pray harder than you push. THAT is a good challenge!!
What a powerful book!!! Every leader of church and other non-profits should be required to read this book annually. Since the bottom line is not usualy $$$'s in these contexts the lack of truthful transparancy becomes easier to practice and harder to confront. Thanks for the summary statements. By the way in respect to your poston the Willys, I will always remember how you and your dad bailed us out along the highway hauling out that moose we shot.
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